Recollection of Yesterday: I had a Sex Request

Note: I wrote this yesterday but couldn't post it,i even thought i had deleted it but saw it in my draft box,so here we are.

Woke up with a nagging headache today. But am not surprised at this headache, as a matter of fact, i knew it would come. I also don't feel like writing this post and its not a surprise either cause i know myself well, and i know i like to run away from this kind of discussions, but i will share this, anyway.
For my headache, i had a 'bad' day yesterday. For my not wanting to share this,its because of the 'hushed' nature of the topic am about to share with you.
My yesterday was bad because of a very simple but shocking sex request i got from a friend of mine. Yes! you heard me right. A sex request.
I really struggled hard, trying to convince myself not to share this, but i keep having recollections of this very event and the thought has refused to go ( by the way, that is part of the reason for my headache, have been thinking since this incidence ) .
Ok. lets do it this way. i will try re-create the scene for you.
Me and my friend(male) were hanging out in a very beautiful and natural mini open air threatre at the Jos museum and the following conversation ensued
My Friend: What will you be doing on Saturday?
Tongryang: Am not sure. Why?
My Friend: Lets arrange for a date
Tongryang: Where?
My Friend: We get a hotel or something
Tongryang: Shockingly silent or silently shocked. I felt one of the two...
There was an uncomfortable silence between us after then. For me, i was trying to take in what that implied. I wasnt sure what he was thinking but after a while, we started conversing again, off-course not in connection with our earlier conversation. Then again, (i cant remember exactly what came before this) but he asked me when we are going to have sex, or something like that. In shock, i kept quite again.
I didnot know what to say to him. I had no idea that sex could be requested that way. I didn't know its something you can arrange to do, like that.
Am going to be honest; sex, outside marriage,is forbidden for me as a Christian. Its called fornication. I know that, but i will be lying if i said i had never had it before(God forgive me) but then, i will also be lying if i said, it was ever arranged or negotiated or anything like that.
Am totally shocked by this request and am wondering if there are guys out there who ask for sex this way or girls who have been asked this way. Share your experience with me oh here in the comment box, let me broaden my knowledge in this area.*winks* I love learning.